Five years ago, at a friend’s party, I met my “toy boy,” who is in his late 20s, and I have no regrets. I fell for him at first glance. His grin and good looks drew me in, and I recall telling my girlfriends that I would be cool with getting to know the boy. I had no idea that this would spark a friendship that would eventually blossom into a passionate romance. He has a lot in common with my son regarding looks and character, which is perhaps why I was drawn to him in the first place. My spouse is constantly preoccupied with work and doesn’t have time for me and even though I know it hurts to cheat, I am a woman with needs.

Our relationship suffers as a result, and even though we reside in the same home, we can go months without having a sexual encounter. I love to have sex and I want more, but he hasn’t been into it, and when I bring it up, he constantly tells me to hold off until we’re both feeling sexy. I know it’s normal for him to gradually lose his sex drive around 48, but sadly, this started much earlier while we were still newlyweds. We have been married for fifteen years, and although I have been patient with him in the hopes that he would improve, I gave up five years ago. I never imagined betraying him, but I’m at my breaking point.

I have been searching for a man who would satisfy my sex urge, even though I still adore him for the support he has provided my 25-year-old son. Fortunately, I’ve discovered a young man who is willing to fill this demand, and I have no problem spending money on him. In comparison to my spouse, he offers more sex and I adore how he spoils me. My spouse finds it unbearable because I have such a voracious hunger for sex and may want to have it five times a day, especially on my days off.

My spouse has staff to manage and is busy running his business, so he hardly ever has time for me. Even at home, he is constantly on the phone. I’ve made sure to keep the affair secret by talking to my lover on a different phone. Knowing this would make my kid think worse of me because we are the same age, so I wouldn’t want him to find out.

My boyfriend and I have decided that our relationship will continue even though I understand that he would prefer to be married. I cover the man’s tuition and expenses while he is attending college to pursue an engineering degree. He was overjoyed when I recently gave him a car for his birthday.

To be honest, he always asks me, “Who wouldn’t mind having such a woman?” To give him privacy when we meet, I rented him a house. As his closest buddy, I always give him the same advice I give my kid. I’m on contraceptives, therefore I wouldn’t want to become pregnant for him because my husband might find out later that I got pregnant from an affair with my Kenyan toyboy lover.

I know that I am not ready to end the affair but at the same time, I can’t divorce my husband. Both provide me with something I need. This man gives me the sex I can’t get at home while my husband provides the financial stability I require. Who says women can’t have it all? 

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